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The 50 things every woman needs to know about sex

I just thought of putting this down, because of the different things and issues i have witness. The 50 things females need to know in bed.   Read below and share your thoughts… 1. You’ll have your first orgasm by yourself. Few of us are lucky enough to start our sexual lives with a lover who’s so patient and skilled he can teach us about our own body. 2. Enthusiasm and being willing to try (almost) everything once is what makes you sexy. Looks, breasts, legs up to your armpits – they’ll only take you so far. 3. A vibrator is the quickest, easiest, most effective way to stimulate the clitoris, which is how most women have an orgasm. 4. You won’t become ‘addicted’ to your vibrator. Using it often won’t put you off having the ‘real thing’ – quite the opposite! Women who regularly use s ex toys have higher libidos, orgasm easily and report less sexual dysfunction. About the only ‘bad’ thing that can happen is feeling a bit numb from having it up too high. Pani...

Why Early Morning Sex is More important  

Partners making love is a very important aspect of marriage. Doing it very early in the morning which is the peak period when men are naturally activated in the pleasure realm is an absolute plus. It has been discovered that men are capable of having sex and enjoying it at any opportune time and place. It is so easy for men to do so because of their physiological make up. Men have been said to be like a helicopter when it comes However, men still have a time that makes s ex most suitable for them. Experts in this field have said that males’ best sex time is in the morning. According to sex therapist, Dr. Arlene Goldman, co-author of Psychology Today Here to Help: Secrets of Sexual Ecstasy, “Many men are on their horniest first thing in the morning.” Though you may not feel like it, doing it in the morning can be amazingly hot for you as well, even as a woman. Your man’s best time for sex is in the morning due to a biological reason that is known as testosterone. After a night’s ...

5 Keys To Having Great sex

Here are the five keys to great sex, and these apply to married couples,  I THINK........ 1. Great sex is planned. Sometimes couples think that only spontaneous sex is great sex. Not true. Back when you were dating, if you went out on a Saturday night and you thought there was the chance that you were going to have sex, you shaved your legs (or face), you wore sexy underwear, you prepared. It was planned. In fact, making a date for sex can create what I call “sexual anticipation,” which, for women, creates more desire for sex. Women need arousal before they feel desire. sexual anticipation is a good way to create that arousal, because it cooks up all kinds of fantasies in their minds about what could happen on the sex date. Let us marinate in the idea for a while and remind us of what you are going to do to us when we get there. (If you are going to make love to a woman on a Saturday, start on Wednesday.) Tell us you can’t wait to see us unclad, kiss our neck, leave a note ...

5 Ways To Turn A Woman On Without Physical Contact

No, this isn’t about where to kiss her, and different ways to touch her body. We are talking about achieving this without ever laying a finger on her. Non physical attributes play a big role in generating attraction with a woman, and here are 5 that can truly have an impact.                                           1. Intelligence   For a lot of women, a smart man is a sexy man. Knowledge is power, and it can definitely intrigue a woman. Having the ability to carry on an intelligent conversation can have a very positive effect on a woman. 2. Being Considerate   When you do something considerate, it can make a woman feel special. And that can sometimes materialize into a greater attraction. Being mindful of her feelings and doing small gestures to show her you’re thinking about her can easily win you some points. You’re pouring into her emotionally and...

Check out 7 Reasons Why Women Leave Men They Love

It’s strange when women walk out of relationships in which they claim to love the men Sign of a ‘cracked relationship’. It’s really confusing; how could you claim to love someone and then walk out on them? How easy is it leaving someone your heart finds happiness in? On the women’s part, it’s a pretty tough decision they struggle to make. They bear the burden of initiating that move forever. Many women walk out of marriages, some leave their children and homes behind. Below are some of the reasons women leave the men they love 1. No Attention Women can’t put up with having absentee men in their lives. A man who is hardly home, working all the meaningful hours of the day off, watching TV, playing games and doing things that doesn’t involve the woman’s active participation may be walked out on. His endless list of activities give the woman the impression those things are more important than her. Neglect doesn’t go well with women generally. Women leave when they notice th...

FIVE MIND BLOWING ORGASM HACKS FOR MEN

During one of the biggest sex exhibition in the UK. Interview was done for the pros and and to learn what we could from the extreme fringes of sexuality. Among the adult stars and frankly baffling array of sex toys, one thing caught our eye: a seminar called “Cumming without cumming”. Here, the gathered experts discussed the possibility for men to enjoy an orgasm without ejaculating. Yes, you read that right. No ejaculating – leading to the possibility of on-demand sexual highs that keep on, well, coming. Hell of a promise. It’s an age-old tantric practice but there’s also some proof that it’s a real phenomenon (it’s known as a ‘dry orgasm’in medical circles). Control, not denial, is the key (of course you can let yourself go eventually). To find out more, we spoke to leading sexologist Drew Lawson about how it’s done. 1. Relax It might sound counter-intuitive, but learning to let go is key. It’s an excess build-up of energy that creates ejaculation and ...

HAVE YOU BEEN WONDERING ? AND KEEP ASKING YOUR SELF " Am I bad in bed ? "

I'm sure a lot of us have wondered, "Am I bad in bed?" from time to time. It's a tough question to ask, and the truth is your partner may not be 100 percent honest with their response, even if you work up the nerve to say anything to them. Sometimes, though, you can feel that something's not quite right during sex, and you may not be performing as well as you can. I hate the term "performing", because it sounds fake, or like a competition— both of which it should not be— but sometimes we know when something's just... off. It's not anything to be ashamed of. It can be really uncomfortable, and make you feel really vulnerable, if you feel like your partner isn't satisfied, or you're just not good in bed. But this shouldn't make you feel bad, because how you are in bed can depend on so many different things (Maybe you're stressed? Struggling with body image issues? Not sexually comfortable with your partner?) and it can happen to...