During one of the biggest sex exhibition in the UK. Interview was done for the pros and and to learn what we could from the extreme fringes of sexuality. Among the adult stars and frankly baffling array of sex toys, one thing caught our eye: a seminar called “Cumming without cumming”. Here, the gathered experts discussed the possibility for men to enjoy an orgasm without ejaculating. Yes, you read that right. No ejaculating – leading to the possibility of on-demand sexual highs that keep on, well, coming. Hell of a promise. It’s an age-old tantric practice but there’s also some proof that it’s a real phenomenon (it’s known as a ‘dry orgasm’in medical circles). Control, not denial, is the key (of course you can let yourself go eventually). To find out more, we spoke to leading sexologist Drew Lawson about how it’s done. 1. Relax It might sound counter-intuitive, but learning to let go is key. It’s an excess build-up of energy that creates ejaculation and ...