SIX Tips For Being a Legendary Kisser

Look him in seductively in the eyesMove your hands over his chest and around his neckBrush your lips softly against hisSlowly insert your tongue …

 
These aren’t bad tips. But they are missing a lot of key information.

 

Being a legendary kisser isn’t just about your mouth moves. In fact, it’s often a lot about all of your other senses:

 

How you smell, how you taste,  What your lips feel like,  What you say …

 

It’s also about timing and a number of factors that have little to do with the actual kiss itself.

 

Kissing is one of any guy’s favorite things, and if you really dig the man you’re with, you’ll want to give him a kiss to remember you by.

 

Do this by following these 6 tips for being a legendary kisser.

 

1.  Pick the Perfect Moment

If this is your first kiss, don’t rush it! But also don’t forget that if your guy’s a little shy, you’ll need to help facilitate that first smooch. This means you can’t just wait and wait until he leans in and lays one on ya. With some guys this may never happen …

 
Timing is an art. A lot of men want to make the first move, and you might want that too, so you’ll have to help create the situation.

 
Let’s say it’s the end of the night, and he’s taking you back to your place. As you say goodbye, try:

Leaning in to touch and look at the detail on his collar (doesn’t matter if it’s actually interesting)Putting on some chapstick to draw his eyes to your lips (avoid super pigmented lip color for obvious reasons)Invite him in for a drink or to “look at that thing” you were talking about at dinner …

 2.  Be Aggressive Against Bad Breath

Of course you don’t have bad breath, right? Not so fast. Bad breath is simply the lingering smell of foods you’ve just eaten. So unless you never eat food, you’ll occasionally have it. A kiss with a fresh mouth is a big turn on! The opposite … not so much.

Fortunately, the solution to bad breath is easy. Start by having good overall oral hygiene, but try to brush and flush after every meal as well.

When you’re out to dinner, excuse yourself to the bathroom before you leave and do a quick brush with a disposable toothbrush. Floss if you need to, and always have a strong mint nearby.

 
3.  Keep Soft Lips

Believe it or not, a lot of women don’t worry about their lips. But for a great kiss, soft lips are key.

Men don’t say it too often, but they love how soft women can be overall. They love your squishy love handles and that little pooch on your belly. They love the soft skin on your cheeks, your smooth and shiny hair.

And of course, men love soft lips.

So if you have dry lips with little skin snags about ready to peel off, think about doing a little pampering!

 
It’s easy. Start by using a quick exfoliator every few days: a few drops of olive oil and a little sugar. Put it on, rub gently for 30 seconds, and rinse. In addition, use lip balm regularly, and if you have a little mustache, make sure to wax it occasionally. It’s not so painful, and you can easily do it yourself with at-home wax strips.

 

4.  Have a Signature Scent

Guys love a woman with a bold, signature scent. Two rules: 1) Choose a modern scent. That is, don’t use the first drugstore perfume your mom bought you that she said she used in high school. And 2) Don’t drench yourself in it. Pulse spots only: neck, wrists, and heart.

 

In addition, guys are often at “hair level” to you. So you’ll want to have a nice smelling shampoo, conditioner, and hairspray. Sometimes, hairspray can smell awful, so make sure to get a nice one. It lingers.

 

5.  Build Up “Before Kiss” Tension

 

Again, sometimes everything else besides the actual kiss is the most important part. To help make the lead up to a first (or second or third) kiss super sexy, you’ll want to get close …

 

This might mean taking crowded public transportation and “being forced to” lean on him (definitely need your signature scent here—it’ll drive him crazy).

 

Or it might mean showing him the details on the earrings or necklace you just got (up close). Or it might mean using him for stability as you get a rock out of your shoe on the street.

 

You don’t need to be too touchy. Just get close enough so that he gets a taste of what it would be like to actually kiss you.

 

6.  Speak Your Mind

 

Finally, don’t be silent when you kiss. Be sweet. You’re kissing, and he wants to know that you like it. Sure, you can smile to tell him this, but even better, you can give him verbal feedback. Yep, we’re talking about sighs and little moans and even some dirty talk (depending where you’re headed).  

 

But flirty talk can be intimidating for a lot of women. It’s hard to be nervous and moving and touching and feeling and talking at the same time. What do you say?