BUILDING A BETTER HOME

Look him in seductively in the eyesMove your hands over his chest and around his neckBrush your lips softly against hisSlowly insert your tongue …   These aren’t bad tips. But they are  missing a lot of key information.   Being a legendary kisser isn’t just about your mouth moves. In fact, it’s often a lot about all of your other senses:   How you smell, how you taste,  What your lips feel like,  What you say …   It’s also about timing and a number of factors that have little to do with the actual kiss itself.   Kissing is one of any guy’s favorite things, and if you really dig the man you’re with, you’ll want to give him a kiss to remember you by.   Do this by following these 6 tips for being a legendary kisser.   1.  Pick the Perfect Moment If this is your first kiss, don’t rush it! But also don’t forget that if your guy’s a little shy, you...

Sam is laid back, with an easy smile. The 33-year-old recently moved from California to Oregon with his wonderful girlfriend. Everything is going pretty well for Sam, aside from one problem that has emerged over the past year: He can’t seem to orgasm during sex. “Sometimes, when I have sex, whether there is oral or not, I don’t orgasm and I become flaccid or too tired to go on,” Sam told me over email. While he can successfully sustain an erection and engage in penetrative sex, he can’t always finish—a situation that has been torturing him. Which is why Sam, whose name I’ve changed to protect his privacy, reached out to me, knowing the issues I cover—wondering if other men suffer from this same issue. Turns out many do. While most sexual dysfunction literature focuses on premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction, a notable percentage of men face conditions known as “delayed ejaculation” and “anejaculation.” T...

I have always been hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the tin -  tit of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires.  Let’s go over six possibilities that might be causing your mental blockages, and strategies for minimizing your distractions during sex. 1: You Don’t Know What An Orgasm Feels Like I wasn’t clear from your question if you have had orgasms in the past, so I figured this was a good place to start. Lots of women have never had an orgasm before, and sometimes there’s a fear of the unknown that can come up. You might find yourself worrying about what having an orgasm will really be like, and that fear may end up preventing you from having one. You can learn how to give yourself an orgasm, in the privacy of your own space. That way you'll know what to look out for when you're with a partner. I’ve also found it useful to compare ha...

Majority of us would have this question "Am I bad in bed?" running through our head from time to time. It's a hard question to ask, and the truth is your partner may not be 100 percent honest with their response, even if you work up the nerve to say anything to them. Sometimes, though, you can feel that something's not quite right during sex, and you may not be actively well as you can. I dislike the term "performing", because it sounds fake, or like a competition— both of which it should not be— but sometimes we know when something's just off. It's not anything to be ashamed of. It can be really uncomfortable, and make you feel really vulnerable, if you feel like your partner isn't satisfied, or you're just not good in bed. But this shouldn't make you feel bad, because how you are in bed can depend on so many different things (Maybe you're stressed? Struggling with body image issues? Not sexually comfortable with your partner?) and ...

When it comes to helping a man last longer in bed, there’s no exact articles that geared to both men and women, on how to deal with the “issue.”  a 2014 study published in the  Journal of Sexual Medicine  found that out of the 1,200 male participants, about 30 percent of men felt that they finish too quickly during sex. Despite the fact that the same study found that none of the men actually qualified as suffering from premature ejaculation, it didn’t change their minds that they  needed  to last longer in bed. Even as women, we’re taught great sex is somehow related to just how long a man can last in bed, and what we've learned from our culture is that longer is better — but that's not necessarily true. Out of sampled opinion , I get to know that great sex doesn’t have to go on and on and on. Honestly, according to sample  opinion,heigher  percentage of females get easily bored and start counting seconds...